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Posted by on Jun 12, 2016 in About, BDSM, Uncategorized | 0 comments

Escorts Hate Extreme BDSM

I never used to be into BDSM before I met my boyfriend. To be honest, it has always freaked me out a bit, and it has not really been within my comfort zone. I am totally open minded like most London escorts, but there are still things that I am not totally comfortable about. The girls who have been working for London escorts for longer than I have, seem to be a lot more into things like BDSM. However, I am willing to try everything once and that is how I ended up getting involved with BDSM.

The girls at London escorts gave me loads of good advice and above all told me to start of slowly. My boyfriend was not trying to rush me into anything, but at the same time I felt that he put a bit of pressure on me. I wanted to please him so I agreed to do some things that I wasn’t ready for. In many ways they scared me a bit emotionally, and like I said to the girls at London escorts, I just didn’t think that I was ready for them at all.

Sometimes BDSM can just go too far, and you need to make sure that your practice it in the comfort zone of the less experienced partner. The girls who are into BDSM at London escorts, always introduce it to their relationships very slowly. Looking back I realize that my girlfriends at London escorts are right, the only way to get into this kind of practice is by taking it slow. There is no way that I would get involved with BDSM outside of London escorts again.

There is nothing from with BDSM and it can be fun. But when it goes wrong it can really go wrong. You may end up getting physically hurt as well as emotionally hurt, and that is not a good combination at all. Today, my scars have healed and I do practice BDSM with my friends at London escorts. The good thing is that the girls at London escorts do have a lot of experience of this sort of thing, and they have come to appreciate that some people have limits. That is what my boyfriend forgot, and why things went so wrong in between us.

Yes, I think that love is about having some fun together and taking your head out of gear, but at the same time you need to be careful. I do enjoy having fun with my partners, male or female, but I also like to preserve an integral part of me. There are some areas which I do not let others go to, and I would encourage everybody who is interested in BDSM to take it slow and get to know their limits first of all. You also need to learn to talk about what you are going to do, and you may even want to have a play plan as I like to call them. Also, don’t forget that essential safe word that stops play.

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Posted by on Oct 27, 2015 in About, BDSM | 0 comments

Dominance And Submission During Sex

Dominance And Submission During Sex

The main contradiction that now exists in the realm of sexual roles is dominant and submissive. In days of yore, ladies had to be submissive but sex has evolved and everyone is now taking part in the act, making it hard to tell who the controller and submissive is.

We first need to understand that anyone who is sexually active appears to possess sub-cortical circuits for sexual dominance as well as submission. Not just humans but also animals.

Most individuals prefer a single sexual stance, still each role seems to offer its own gratifications. Going beyond this viewpoint, it’s useful to explore the paradoxical possibility that there can be dominance within submission and submission within dominance.

So does being a controller make you a great partner in bed? This is what you need to understand, feeling out of control can be related to anxiety. Being submissive can be thrilling at the same time. Since men are perceived to be the dominant, turning the tables makes its more exciting. Picture a woman who’s dominant (or the aggressor) and the man who’s portrayed as submissive and sexually exploited or abused.

Advantages of being a dominant

Most females are extremely turned on when a man tells them what to do. In my experience, only once has a woman said, “No, I’m not going to change positions.” Research demonstrates the erotic appeal of male dominance. Most women if not all, prefer the voices of, the scent, the movement and gait of dominant men, and the facial features of dominant men.

According to scientists, the ventrolateral prefrontal cortex may be responsible for processing cues indicating social status or control, and it appears that almost all female brains are prone to power cues. So this is not something you can easily alter overnight.

Disadvantages

On the other hand, ladies can associate very masculine faces with negative traits such as coldness and dishonesty. They also perceive such males as more likely to be unfaithful and divert possessions away from the home. This may be of little or no concern to ladies who prioritize short-term coupling. For long-term relationships, however, the female is faced with the challenge of optimizing the combination of leadership and provider traits.

That said, it is also important to understand that females prefer low-dominance men for both long-term and short-term coupling, but the preference is stronger when looking for a long-term partner. Check out www.charlotteaction.org for more pleasure.

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