I never used to be into BDSM before I met my boyfriend. To be honest, it has always freaked me out a bit, and it has not really been within my comfort zone. I am totally open minded like most London escorts, but there are still things that I am not totally comfortable about. The girls who have been working for London escorts for longer than I have, seem to be a lot more into things like BDSM. However, I am willing to try everything once and that is how I ended up getting involved with BDSM.
The girls at London escorts gave me loads of good advice and above all told me to start of slowly. My boyfriend was not trying to rush me into anything, but at the same time I felt that he put a bit of pressure on me. I wanted to please him so I agreed to do some things that I wasn’t ready for. In many ways they scared me a bit emotionally, and like I said to the girls at London escorts, I just didn’t think that I was ready for them at all.
Sometimes BDSM can just go too far, and you need to make sure that your practice it in the comfort zone of the less experienced partner. The girls who are into BDSM at London escorts, always introduce it to their relationships very slowly. Looking back I realize that my girlfriends at London escorts are right, the only way to get into this kind of practice is by taking it slow. There is no way that I would get involved with BDSM outside of London escorts again.
There is nothing from with BDSM and it can be fun. But when it goes wrong it can really go wrong. You may end up getting physically hurt as well as emotionally hurt, and that is not a good combination at all. Today, my scars have healed and I do practice BDSM with my friends at London escorts. The good thing is that the girls at London escorts do have a lot of experience of this sort of thing, and they have come to appreciate that some people have limits. That is what my boyfriend forgot, and why things went so wrong in between us.
Yes, I think that love is about having some fun together and taking your head out of gear, but at the same time you need to be careful. I do enjoy having fun with my partners, male or female, but I also like to preserve an integral part of me. There are some areas which I do not let others go to, and I would encourage everybody who is interested in BDSM to take it slow and get to know their limits ﬁrst of all. You also need to learn to talk about what you are going to do, and you may even want to have a play plan as I like to call them. Also, don’t forget that essential safe word that stops play.Read More